Intimacy doesn’t have to be an argument.
The thrill of the chase, being pursued, the adrenaline of figuring out if he’s the one.…and then what? Sex in a committed relationship is a whole different ballgame. No one taught you the rules, so you feel like you are always losing. Nothing is ever good enough. That passionate connection you envisioned. The most intimate communication you need is nowhere in sight. Is this all there is?
SEX IS SO DAMN IMPORTANT IN A LONGTERM RELATIONSHIP
Women enjoy their relationships 15-20% more when sex is a positive factor. 👍
That’s cool, right? Nice little plus. BUT ✋ When the very topic of S•E•X is a stressor [HINT-HINT 85% of married women], her relationship satisfaction drops by 50-70%. 📉FIFTY TO SEVENTY PERCENT!! 💣 ❌ Derails the whole damn relationship. ❌ If you’re not interested in sex, don’t even wanna HEAR the word sex, not getting what YOU NEED, or just exhausted by the whole topic...I hear you. Learn about why only 15% of us have “spontaneous desire” and why that’s NOT A BAD THING!
Some people gotta do to feel good.
Some people gotta feel good to do.