Meet Hilary.
✨ Licensed Professional Counselor
✨ Disruptor
✨ Badass Woman Whisperer
Based in Nichols Hills, Oklahoma (a suburb of Oklahoma City), Hilary Stevenson isn’t your average therapist.
She’s not here to hand you another “communication skills” worksheet.
She’s here to tell the truth about what’s really going on in these marriages out here (and why women are so damn tired).
The women Hilary works with aren’t failing—they’re doing too much.
☑️ Managing the marriage like a second job
☑️ Carrying the mental load,
☑️ Keeping the the chaos on track
☑️ Doing the most
And you wonder why you still feel SO DAMN OVER IT.
That’s why Hilary created the Stress Free Love Method™—a method that doesn’t ask women to work harder, be nicer, or explain better. Because the real issue?
It’s not that you’re doing it wrong.
It’s that you’re doing too much.
Hilary’s approach blends the best of psychology (Enneagram, MBTI, Dr. Pat Allen, Dr. Gabor Maté, Dr. Brené Brown) with her own signature models—Vibe Styles and Mindset Styles—to help women get clear on who they are, what they need, and why carrying the whole relationship on their backs has never been the answer.
Her style is cutting-edge, irreverent, and always rooted in truth-telling. She’s the woman who will say what you’re scared to admit—and then hand you the tools to finally do something about it.
Hilary is the creator of Happy Wife University, the voice behind the Stress-Free Love™ Talk Show, and the author of the upcoming book that promises to blow the lid off everything you thought you knew about love, marriage, and feminine power 💥.
As Seth Godin puts it, “It doesn’t matter how fast you’re going if you’re headed in the wrong direction.” This work is about helping women stop sprinting down the wrong road—and turn back toward their own inner peace, real power, and authentic presence.
If you’re ready to stop managing your relationship like a job—and finally get to feel soft, safe, and seen—Hilary is who you want in your corner. ❤️